I believe the #DancingMan story has struck a cord with so many people because they know what it's like to be a victim of bullying and body shaming or fat shaming. It has happened several times in my life. The first time I can remember I was 11 or 12. I was over-developed at that age. I looked more like I was 16 or 17 than 11. Kids would make fun of me for being so much taller and bigger than them. Adults called me everything from big boned to pleasantly plump to a fat ass. More men than I can count made comments about my "big boobs" including my PE teacher! As I grew up, I learned to become "invisible"... keep quiet, blend into the crowd, be a wallflower. So, I get it. This story tugs at some heartbreaking memories. I have always said and truly believe that abuse in any form including bullying thrives in silence. By speaking up, it brings awareness perhaps to people who have no idea how much their "innocent" comments can affect someone's self-esteem. Bravo to those who care enough to speak up and step out on the dance floor!
Kathy G
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